Generosity

Judgmentalism and resentment are powerful relationship killers. In contrast, a generous spirit believes the best about another and creates an atmosphere of welcome and safety. It’s grace in action; here’s what it looks like. A few weeks ago I met “Jerry,” a Christian leader in my community. I had never liked Jerry. True, I’d never met him. Yet I “knew” that Jerry oozed arrogance—and I “knew” that he didn’t respect me. Why would I want to meet a person so stuck-up and judgmental? One day, as I filled my plate with food at a local dinner, I turned and came face to face with Jerry. Flustered, I said, “Well, hello Jerry. You know, I don’t think we’ve ever met. My name is Matt Woodley.” Much to my surprise, Jerry’s eyes lit up. “Oh, my goodness,” he effused, “I am so happy to meet you. I’ve heard so many good things